Archive for February, 2011

Because A Relationship Status Is What It’s All About

Friday, February 25th, 2011

I’ve touched on the issues surrounding the Facebook relationship status before. Who requests who first? Is it better to do it at same time? (A friend of mine heard a rumour that if you agree to do it simultaneously, it won’t show up in anyone’s feeds…hmmm). However ridiculous it might seem, the importance of the relationship status should not be overlooked. After all, Facebook is all about defining relationships and connections.

facebook-breakup-notifier-appThe most recent development to be spawned is the introduction of two new status options “in a domestic partnership” and “in a civil union”. Celebrated as a triumph for online gay presence, Facebook was proud of its claim that they can “authentically reflect relationships”  [Forbes online] (as according to FB there are only 11 different types of relationships). That said I still adore the comedy vagueness of “it’s complicated” and “in an open relationship”.

Though Facebook encourages borderline stalker behaviour, like many vices – “everyone’s doing it”, we can be quite open, even blase about it – one new app is taking things to a whole other level. Imagine your ex/ someone you are interested in, is in a relationship. How often do you check their page to see if they are still involved or not?

It’s like having a mutual best friend who can make you privy to all the much needed gossip of potential love interests or exes (because of course, you have to know??). The new app called “The Break up Notifier” allows you to choose which relationships and which friends you want to track and it will very kindly (like your virtual best mate) send you notifications every time that oh so important status(s) change. Love it or hate it?

A Dorothy By Any Other Name Would Get More Action

Thursday, February 24th, 2011

What’s in a name? What effect does this have on your personality, your intelligence, how you look? Social scientists have studied which names parents decide to name their children in efforts to make connections between your name and how you turn out.  Apparently your name now has an effect on how successful your sex life is…

Is your name here?

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Rogue economists Stephen Levitt and Stephen Dubner draw distinctions between a person’s socio economic background and their name in the hilarious Freakonomics (which I definitely recommend reading!). Yet they claim that it isn’t that your name makes you a certain way but rather that the name your parents choose for you indicates certain things about where you come from. Your name is a product of your own environment. That said, how much does your background affect how sexually active you are?

I’ll leave you to think about this one as I still am trying to work it out (I made the Top 10 of more sexually active names!) If poor Dorothy or Edward ever wondered why their sex lives are miserable, now they know. Better to be a Vanessa or a Chris, don’t you think?

From Desk To Date

Tuesday, February 22nd, 2011

If living in London or any big city will teach you anything, it’s that there aren’t enough hours in the day. New Yorkers coined the term “faster than a New York minute” as the passing of a normal minute is just too slow for the fast-paced rat race lifestyle over there. Over here it’s no different and it’s certainly a rarity to have the luxury of spending hours in pre-date ritual preening.

I lament the days when I had time to sit with my hair in rollers whilst I ransacked my wardrobe over a glass of wine. Unfortunately my beloved ritual is no longer the status quo and  with dating, as with most things you need to be prepared and I firmly believe that no-one knows this more than a professional female who dates. So after discussing this with a few friends I’ve decided to share their wisdom as you never know when you’ll need that extra minute!

Firstly, leave your house prepared. We could not stress this enough. The night before the date make sure your outfit is planned. You can spend all the time you need inside your wardrobe and you definitely do not want the stress of trying to pull something together whilst on  your way to work. This is the hardest part over. Now when it comes to choosing your outfit, make sure it’s something you can wear to work and dress up easily for your date. No one has managed to grasp dressed down sexy like the London girl has, so follow their example. If creativity fails you, a simple well-tailored/fitted black dress can be sexed up with an amazing pair of shoes, a clutch bag and some accessories. And if that doesn’t sound like your cup of tea, I’ve found some ideal desk to date outfits:

Fleur bodycon dress by Jones and JonesDress by Karen MillenBeige Shola Dress by Reiss

Wear with a smart blazer for the office and add jewellery and heels for your date. Secondly, your makeup. The idea of desk-to-date is not to be transporting the entire contents of your bathroom cabinet with you so only take the essentials. After much deliberation with my fellow desk-to-daters, we found that the essentials include:

  • Concealer (to fix what the day took off!)
  • Bronzer – for that extra glow
  • Blusher
  • Mascara
  • Eyeliner
  • Eyeshadow

That’s it! Anything else is totally unnecessary and these can fit comfortably in a small makeup bag. We also estimated that the exact application time should be…10 minutes. That’s all you have I’m afraid. A colleague of mine can be counted upon at exactly 11 a.m to be doing her nails. As a massive advocate of “desktop manicures” she claims that when you don’t have the time to do your nails properly, this is the ideal solution. Failing this, you can always book an appointment at a nearby nail bar on your lunch hour. You can be in and out inside of an 30 minutes and still have time to pick up a Starbucks.

Now for some final quick tips – take bobby pins in case the hairstyle you spent an hour and half perfecting falls flat. Pack a spare pair of tights in case you sustain a ladder. Carry heels with you so you’re not dashing around in the underground in you’re heels as though you tried so hard to make it in time, you’re probably running a few minutes late.

What Did You Do On Valentines’ Day?

Wednesday, February 16th, 2011

(Because we are dying to know)

Le Relais de Venise l'entrecote

Don't bother trying to book: "You 'ave to queue like everybody else"

Valentines’ Day is over and the pressure is off – at least until the next birthday or Christmas and we would like to know what everyone got up to. Where did you eat? What did you drink? Was it positively awful, full of expectation only to result in disappointment? Or were you one of the lucky few who had the unicorn of dates – the perfect Valentines’? February 14th is after all the most popular day to pop the question and I’m not talking about “do you want to share a cab?”. In fact, it was brought to my attention by a waitress last night that one pricey London venue was picking up the bill for men who proposed in their restaurant.

For Valentines’ Day, I decided to revisit one of my favourite restaurants in the city, Le Relais de Venise l’entrecote in Marylebone, also commonly known as “that steak & chips place”. Yes, the sophisticated French name may suggest a deep menu of overly complicated French dishes, but the only food this resturant serves is salad, steak and chips – and it is arguably the best entrecote steak in London. I also suffer from big menu anxiety and I like that it’s decided for me. The only decision I have to make is what to drink and how I would like the meat cooked. Perfect.

But after a long day at work and contending with the usual rubbish on the Underground (not to mention weaving my way through throngs of men hurrying home with last minute bouquets of half dead roses), I arrived home, thought better of my trip to Marylebone and opted for sushi takeaway and a bottle of red wine. Though it wasn’t the Valentines’ I had planned, I managed to avoid the heart shaped balloons, pink table confetti and had l’entrecote actually been entertaining any of this ridiculous fare, I might have lost a little bit of respect for my favourite steak restaurants. Attempt no. 2 this weekend!

Were you at our F*** Valentines bash? Check out the photos from last Thursday’s party at Funky Buddha, Mayfair

The Perfect Valentines: For The Boys

Wednesday, February 9th, 2011

To some people it’s an opportunity to show their loved one just how special they are, why you’re with them and to share together a day of dedicated romance. To others, Valentines Day is just another date, another meal out and something you do because you feel pressured into doing SOMETHING. Because you couldn’t possible ignore it?

The Perfect Valentine

What are you planning for Valentines' Day?

As a man in a relationship Valentines Day poses some interesting questions.  On the whole I think the majority of men are fairly happy to play it safe and take the conventional route rarely straying from the norm. Many use it as an excuse to try and keep their partner happy or see it as a convenience that allows an opportunity to keep the relationship fresh.

If Valentines Day is to be celebrated, it needs to be done so for the right reasons and  it’s only worth doing if you can ensure a night that is sure to please, is somewhat unconventional and focuses on personal experiences.  A set meal for two at your local pizza express is just another meal at another underwhelming restaurant chain. To make it a night to remember, try straying off the beaten Valentines track and  show why you want to not just spend this night, but many more with the person that really matters.

For men its an unwritten rule that you are the one who takes care of organising everything  and it can be hard to find something, I feel,  that you know you both will enjoy. I don’t think it’s possible to have the perfect Valentines Day, if anything it will be the smaller things that matter the most and the ones that will be remembered. No one can give you a recipe or formula for this to happen but if you know the person well enough it should all just fall into place.

Time To Make Plans

Tuesday, February 8th, 2011

With less than a week to go, if you haven’t started making plans for Valentines’ Day, what on earth are you hanging around for?? Believe me if you want the day (and night) to go smoothly, you need to have a game plan. Having polled some of the best things to do this year, here’s a few suggestions to start thinking about. Lucky you.

Altitude 360
Altitude 360

The sky’s the limit, quite literally, at Altitude 360. Offering up some of London’s most stunning views, this dizzingly high restaurant is going to cater to your romantic evening and relieve you of some of the pressure! The extra trimmings of canapes & champagne show this isn’t just any night of the year whilst the pianist will tinkle the most loved up tunes to get you both in the mood. A four course dinner featuring oysters (of course), rack of lamb and an “orgy” of chocolate means you won’t be disappointed food wise and once that’s all done and dusted, head to the Sky Bar for after dinner cocktails.

Asia de Cuba
Asia de Cuba @ St Martins Lane

A treat for any date, Asia de Cuba is much loved by London’s glitterati. The famed art columns are the centre pieces (and talking points) of this great restaurant. Why is it perfect for V Day? The unique sharing menu of Asian and Cuban food is ideal for getting you both talking about the food and enjoying it together. Asia de Cuba also boasts one of the city’s most renowned rum bars, serving up rum cocktails and other notorious house specialties.

Are you On The Guestlist?

Wednesday, February 2nd, 2011
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Now that we’ve hit February (good riddance January!) it’s the perfect time to come out of hibernation and start making some plans. On the run up to Valentines’ Day, I’ll be telling you about the best/worst romantic restaurants, the most fun things to do and see, ideas for presents (don’t moan!) and also what you should/ should not be doing.

Firstly, you don’t HAVE to have a boyfriend/ girlfriend or even a date for that matter. If this year you’re protesting and saying “to hell with it” and refusing to go down the traditional date route, do not fret. Come and join the frolics at Funky Buddha on the 10th Feb for our “F*** Valentines” Party. Even better than that, we’ve put together a guestlist so you can check out who’s going. Maybe someone will catch your eye… Arrange to meet them in Mayfair and toast a glass of champagne to St Valentine!

Get tickets here or for table reservations email theparty@clicktonight.com