The Singles’ Guide To Surviving Valentine’s Day

February 2nd, 2012

Accursed St Valentine! A thousand plagues upon you for being the source of all this madness. The flowers, the balloons, the special lovers’ deals at every restaurant. No matter how hard you try…you. just. can’t. escape. As the last bastion of your single friends scramble to find last minute dates, you might be forgiven for condemning the whole horrid event. Here’s a handful of things you won’t hate getting caught up in and you won’t be stuck at home on Valentine’s Day. Who knows, you might even fall back in love with the holiday.

Come and party with us
F**k Valentine's - Just Party at Kanaloa - The Singles' Guide to Survival
Don’t you dare stay at home! Where there’s a will there’s a good party to go. Bring your friends or if you’re a single lady, use our wingwoman service  to find a party partner (email wingwoman@clicktonight.com for more info). Join us at new venue Kanaloa for a night that promises to blow all our previous parties out of the water. Complimentary cocktails for those who get here early. Book your tickets quickly as we’re selling out and for guestlist/ table reservations email theparty@clicktonight.com.
F**k Valentine’s- Just Party @ Kanaloa, 18 Lime Office Court EC4A

Go see a movie
A Dangerous Method - Singles' Guide to Survival To Valentine's Day
This may seem a very mediocre option but what better way to escape Valentine’s Day by escaping to another world. With Oscars season on the horizon, there is a flurry of amazing movies showing on the silver screen. Michael Fassbender, Keira Knightley & Viggo Mortensen star in the Freudian drama A Dangerous Method and the critics can’t stop talking about it. Arm yourself with Häagen-Dazs and immerse yourself in someone else’s story.

Cocktail Hour
Mishkin's Covent Garden - The Singles' Guide to Survival
Grab an ally and head to Mishkin’s in Covent Garden for some reasonably priced cocktails in one of our new favourite hangouts. They pride themselves as a “kind of Jewish deli with cocktails” and their quirky American diner style interior coupled with a glass of prosecco and a plate of ground beef and green peppercorn meatballs will make you forget all about…who cares? Can’t remember. If this isn’t your part of town, check out our Places Page where our savvy members have reviewed the best bars.
Mishkin, 25 Catherine Street WC2B

Bowl Your Blues Away
All Star Lanes - The Singles' Guide to Survival
There are few things more distracting than getting active and whether you’re a natural or embarrassingly awful, you’re guaranteed to enjoy the retro-style bowling at All Star Lanes. American Diner, cocktail bar and more stylish than average bowling shoes will mean you’re more than occupied. No excuses for Valentine’s Day misery.
All Star Bowling Lanes: Brick Lane, Holborn, Bayswater, Stratford City

Dancing With Myself
Floripa - The Singles' Guide to Survival
Dance the night away at Brazilian hotspot Floripa where Adriano Trindade plays live classic Samba and Samba Rock on Valentine’s Day. Take a gang down there prepared to storm the dancefloor or go solo and salsa into someone’s arms!
Floripa, 91-93 Great Eastern St, EC2A

Get the Green Light
Proud Camden - The Singles' Guide to Survival
Ok so it is a traffic light party BUT this is a much more classy affair. Proud Camden are hosting and you can expect their usual antics. Live music and some fun games to keep you entertained until the small hours of the morning.
Proud Camden, The Stables, Camden NW1

Enjoy fellow singletons!

x

Guest Blog: A Game of Numbers?

January 28th, 2012

We are just loving all the guest blog contributions that are flying into our inbox. Your dating stories, good and bad, are hilarious! Keep them coming and we promise to post the best ones. Melissa made a bold move by plunging into the Spanish dating scene. Her experiences so far? A game of numbers so it would seem…

Having had no luck with British men, I was excited to move to Spain. They had to be better, didn’t they? Well, I have found it easy to meet people, or should I say, guys have made an effort to meet me- in the most random places and ways- from having my bum pinched in the street, to a guy getting out of a car and asking me on a date, saying he liked the look of me. The thing is, though, the meetings have come to nothing for one reason or another.

Guest blog: A game of numbersOk, so the one who pinched my bum got a shock when I screamed, and he ran off. I thought it was odd that the other guy had driven by and stopped- I was wearing a hood, so he couldn’t really have seen what I looked like, could he? Anyway, didn’t give him my number.

But what of the guys I have exchanged numbers with?

The first seemed very romantic, showering me with compliments and telling me he thought he could fall in love again. After a couple of weeks, he confirmed he had fallen in love- just with someone else!

The second I met in a club, and he came to my rescue when my credit card got stolen and I couldn’t make myself understood over the phone. He invited me out and we went for tapas, then to a club. He paid everything and I thought it went well, until the end of the night when he said I will call you or you call me. It wasn’t quite a knock back but it felt like an insincere ‘I’ll call you’. Well, we did meet up again, and it was on our next date, I got my next number. What sort of a date was that, you may ask? Indeed! He picked me up and told me we were going out with some people he met on the internet. Location- an all-you-can eat Chinese buffet. It was when I was choosing my vegetables, that a tall, attractive guy came over and asked me if I was at the singles night.

‘I don’t know’ I replied.

‘Are you on one of the tables over there? ‘

‘Well, yes.’ I told him, somewhat surprised.

We chatted some and exchanged numbers- I mean, wouldn’t you after learning you were on a date like that?! From the restaurant, my date and I went to a club, accompanied by the guy I had exchanged numbers with (he invited himself). I didn’t know where to look or who to talk to, so plonked myself at the bar and worked my way through a few G n T’s until it was time to go home.

I never heard from my date again, but a few days later, the vegetable counter guy messaged me and invited me…..swimming! No way, I thought- not until the New Year’s resolutions have had time to make me bikini or at least swimsuit ready!  I will wait and see if he responds to my suggestion of meeting for a drink, but will not hold my breath, I mean that would be far too normal a date, wouldn’t it?!

Melissa Patient, Valencia

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Opulence And A Taste Of The Exotic at Gilgamesh

January 25th, 2012

Oh Camden, you are such a strange and surreal place. A real mixture of bars, pubs and restaurants call this lockside area home and the nightlife is so so active. You might even find a few late night revellers crowding around Amy Winehouse’s doorstep. Venture into the Stables Market and you discover live music venues, some quirky watering holes and you might even locate Gilgamesh.

Gilgamesh Camden, Clicktonight.com Date IdeasYou could be forgiven for thinking you had been transported to the West End – red carpet, ropes, tall intimidating girl with clipboard and angry looking bouncer. Though this is very un-Camden like and might not be totally in sync with the local vibe, up the escalator (yes the escalator) and you’ll soon forgive the unnecessary door antics. Inside, it’s huge. Gilgamesh is glamourous and is a taste of uber luxury in the heart of Camden.

Restaurant/bar/club combos are so rarely enjoyable. They often play host to a strange crowd dynamic when no one really feels like they are getting the full experience. Gilgamesh has been smart to separate its drinkers and diners from its party goers.

Set menus are awful. I hate them. A selection of things you don’t really want to eat and make your choice based on “what is the thing I can deal with eating”. The set menu at Gilgamesh is brilliant. I was stubborn enough to stick to a la carte and was left with a serious case of food envy when my date’s food arrived. I did manage to steal some of their Scallop Sui Mai and Hobo Miso Chilean Seabass. The food is not the cheapest but the value for money for the £60 set menu is very good. If you decide to stick to a la carte however, you won’t go wrong. The restaurant is headed up by maestro Head Chef Ian Pengelley.

If dinner has gone well, head upstairs to the 9000 sq ft club where you’ll find VIP booths and plenty of dark corners. Gilgamesh is extravagant, sultry and sexy. A great date venue if you’re willing to splash the $$$$. You won’t fail to impress and if the date doesn’t go as well as you might have hoped, at least the venue wouldn’t be to blame!

Tickets! Tickets! Tickets! We have them. You want them. Our F**K Valentine – Just Party event at Kanaloa is getting closer.

London Dating: Interview With The Single Filez Blogger!

January 22nd, 2012

We’ve got such an exciting post lined up for you! We interviewed the famed blogger from The Single Filez about her life and experiences as a single girl in London. Here it is – her gossip, her tips and her stories. Enjoy!

What made you want to start blogging about your dating experiences?

I’d had a stream of really bad luck in the love life department, so I gave up on trying to find someone special and dedicated myself to living a happy single life. However, through a work-related project I had the opportunity to appear in a magazine article which involved speaking to a dating expert and a life coach. The advice I received was helpful, but one thing that stuck in my mind was that I shouldn’t give up. I had to keep trying. I was reminded that when looking for a job, you don’t give up after the first rejection – you keep scouring job ads, you keep applying, you keep going for interviews and you stick at it – that was how I needed to approach dating. I was told that I should take the seriousness out of it and make it more fun. It was suggested that I should write a diary or a blog. Nearly two years later, I’m still single, but loving blogging!

London Dating: Interview With The Single Filez

"Being single allows us to be selfish. Being single allows us to do the things they way we want to, how we want to and when we want to."

What are your favourite things about dating?

Now, this is a hard question because being a dating blogger can make you a bit cynical.  Sometimes I’ve had to date when I didn’t really feel like dating, mostly because I worried about needing blog content. For the sake of my sanity, I recently took a break and removed myself from the dating merry-go-round for a few months but if I think back to what I love about dating, it would be the feeling of hope and excitement. Every time before you meet someone new, you can’t help but hope that it’s going to be someone special. You can’t help but feel excited about what could potentially happen.

We want to know more about the single life in London, tell us about your weekend habits?

My weekends are extremely varied. They can consist of everything from going to the gym and doing my grocery shopping, to travelling across London to meet friends for dinner and a movie, to jetting off to Madrid on a cheap EasyJet flight. That’s the great thing about being single – the world (or London) is your oyster!

What was the best date you’ve ever been on?

Not to boast, but one of my favorite dates ever was organised by me (ok, maybe I’m boasting just a little!). It was slap bang in the middle of summer and we met at St Katharine Docks which is a picturesque marina with restaurants, shops and a good food market, right next Tower Bridge. It’s beautiful and doesn’t even feel like you’re in London! We then walked across Tower Bridge, taking in the scenery. The rest of the date was spent doing a pub crawl along the river. We stopped at a few pubs along the way (Horniman at Hays, The Anchor Bankside and Studio Six at Gabriels Wharf) plenty of laughter and chatter was had. We finished up near Waterloo where we had dinner at a Las Iguanas – Royal Festival Hall, overlooking the River Thames.  The date ended with us sharing a kiss whilst taking in the night-time views of London – it was dreamy!

We love to laugh at our bad dates. What about your worst?

Oh wow, not sure where to start, I’ve had so many. There was the time I was taken to a kebab shop to share a bag of chips for dinner, the time the guy was a bit too keen and took one of my rings and tried to put it on my wedding ring finger, or the time the guy was so embarrassed about something stupid he said, that halfway through the date he did a runner and left me in the bar all on my lonesome – take your pick!

What are your views on online dating vs. offline dating?

I have a love/hate relationship with online dating. I wish it wasn’t so necessary because I do miss the days of meeting people in ‘regular’ situations but realistically, in this day and age, it doesn’t happen like it used to. Online dating is a great way to widen your net and to meet people you wouldn’t normally get the chance to meet. It doesn’t have the stigma attached to it like it used to. Everyone used to think only crazy people were sad enough to look for dates online, nowadays regular, attractive, hard-working professionals like you and I log onto dating sites every single day. I’ve even heard many stories of couples who have met online getting married or moving in together.

Any good dating tips you’d like to share with our Click members?

Ha! I’m far from being a dating expert, so not best placed to give out dating tips but one thing I would say when it comes to online dating is to always let someone know where you are. I always tell a friend who I’m going out with and where we’re going. I give them as much info about my date as possible. Usually there’s no need but I do believe it’s better to be safe than sorry.

What would your advice be to a new single and fabulous?

My advice would be to enjoy it.  Being single allows us to be selfish. Being single allows us to do the things they way we want to, how we want to and when we want to. Enjoy that as much as possible while you can and also know that it won’t last forever.

We hope you’ve had a great weekend and we’ve got a treat in store for you! Our F**k Valentine – Just Party! event is coming up soon. Get your tickets here.

Has Anyone Seen Cupid?

January 20th, 2012

It’s the most wonderful time of the year. It’s the run up to our “F**k Valentine- Just Party” Click Tonight Party! Joy of joys, we love celebrating the lovers’ holiday though not exactly in the same way. To hell with candlelit dinners, heart-shaped balloons, red roses and violins, we’re having a party and will having nothing to do any of it. If you’ve been to one of our infamous parties, then you’ll know Click Tonight host the best nights and for the first time ever, we’re hitting the City! We promise there won’t be a Cupid in sight. In fact if we see him, we’ll shoot him.

Kanaloa Bar, Clicktonight.com PartyWe’re relocating from our usual Mayfair stomping ground and going all tropical at Kanaloa, the hottest club in the heart of the City. An escape from cold dreary London, we’re having a Luau Oahu complete with tiki torches, lei flower garlands and limbo. It promises to be an absolutely brilliant evening! We’re kicking things off an earlier time than usual at 6.30p.m so make sure you’re ready to party straight from work.

Voted the best global Tiki bar and Mahiki’s sister venue, Kanaloa is renowned for being one of the best nights out in the City and their special cocktails are famous in their own right. Limbo into the rainforest retreat and plant yourself amongst the giant palm trees. Discover hideaways in the large elevated booths and inside the bamboo alcoves.

Our grass skirt dancers will keep you entertained whether you’re in for the long haul or swing by for a few a drinks. Complimentary cocktails for those of you who arrive early as always and we’ll be there of course, NOT wearing red! Tickets are selling fast and we’re taking bookings for tables so book up asap! Get your tickets here and for tables & guestlist contact us at theparty@clicktonight.com.

The details in case you missed them:
ClickTonight F**k Valentine – Just Party
Kanaloa, EC4
6.30 p.m till late

See you there!
Click Tonight x

Top 10 Things To Do On Valentine’s Day

January 17th, 2012

1. It wouldn’t be Valentine’s Day at ClickTonight without a party to celebrate the death of Cupid. If the idea of heart-shaped balloons, violins and set menus for two is your idea of hell, come join us as we say F**k Valentines’, let’s party! We’ll be hosting at a brand new venue in the heart of the city and tickets are selling fast so make sure you book asap! Email theparty@clicktonight.com for guestlist and table reservations.
ClickTonight F**k Valentines Party, Kanaloa, EC4, 6.30 pm till late.

2. Romantic option: London Eye
A lovely option for a Valentines’ Date though it might seem quite contrived, the set up at the London Eye is quite impressive. Expect champagne, parmesan hearts and chocolate covered strawberries. Canapes, champagne and a breathtaking view of London at night will score highly on the romance factor.
London Eye, tickets available through website.

3. Semi-romantic option: The Pleasure Garden Ball
Go with a date or take a group of friends to this traditional English pastime hosted by the Museum of London. This experience promises something truly different with lots of dancing, drinking and Georgian nostalgia. Risque poetry, 18th century bands. A trip back in time anyone?
The Pleasure Garden Ball, The Museum of London, 6.45 pm – 9.45 pm, tickets available through website.

Top 10 Things To Do This Valentine's Day by ClickTonight

Stargazing = Romance

4. Uber-romantic option: A Night With The Stars
Remember that episode of Friends from ages ago when Ross famously seduced Rachel at the Planetarium? How romantic and amazing was that?! The Royal Observatory presents A Night With The Stars where you can spend the evening star-gazing and knocking back champagne. Look through the telescope and show off your (newly learned) knowledge of the constellations.
Royal Museums Greenwich, Romney Rd, SE10 9NF, Shows at 5.25pm, 5.30pm, 6.45pm, 6.50pm.

5. Hot date option: Zuma
Love Japanese food? Zuma in Knightsbridge will not disappoint. A seriously sexy restaurant with a stellar menu that includes top dishes like the crispy fried squid with green chilli and salt, you can’t go wrong with this as a hot date option for this Valentine’s Day. With a huge list of celebrity frequenters, you will need to book in advance.
Zuma, 5 Raphael Street SW7 1D.

6. Lonesome option: Valentine’s What?!
Not feeling the love this year but still want a good evening out and some delicious food? A jazzed up take on the classic Spanish tapas bar, Barrafina has a no reservations policy and you won’t be left sitting alone as you are seated alongside your fellow diners. Chefs are chatty and guide you through their best dishes and then you get to watch them work their magic.
Barrafina, 54 Frith Street W1D 4SL.

7. Cosy option: Cuddle Me By The Fire
Spend the evening cosying up with your date in a traditional English pub with a good bottle of red wine. The Spaniard’s Inn on Hampstead Heath is a pub famed for its history with the illustrious Dick Turpin and Charles Dickens. “A country pub in the city”, it has a huge beer garden, great food and was listed by the Telegraph in the Top 100 pubs in the UK.
The Spaniard’s Inn, Spaniards Road, Hampstead, NW3 7JJ.

8. The Spoil Me option: Valentine’s Day Pamper
Score highly on Valentine’s Day points by booking you and your date in for a couples’ massage at a luxury spa in Notting Hill. Get massaged at the same time by two experienced therapists. 55 minutes of bliss at the Savana Urban Spa will be the perfect start to your evening.
Savana Urban Spa, 45 Hereford Road, Notting Hill, W2 5AH.

9. For the lovers option: A View From A Bridge
Whenever we ask what have been your most memorable dates, the same answers keep coming back. That magical evening spent walking around the sights of London and taking in the views etc. etc. On Valentine’s Day, Tower Bridge will be sparkle with lights and be adorned with flowers as you stroll hand in hand through the famous walkways. Last year’s event was successful with a record 15 marriage proposals taking place on that night!
Tower Bridge, London, tickets available through website

10. The let’s get drunk and forget about the whole thing option:
If you’re not coming to our F**k Valentine’s Party (shame on you!), get a few friends together and hit one of London’s trendiest cocktail bars. Callooh Callay is a Narnia-esque bar where you can disappear for a few hours. A quirky and curious playground for the Shoreditch drinking ground, lose yourself this Valentine’s Day.
Callooh Callay, 65 Rivington Street, EC2

Guest Blog: Bad Romance

January 12th, 2012

We recently posted that we are looking for guest bloggers and we’re just so thrilled with the amount of budding writers we have amongst our readers. We love hearing from you and today we are proud to publish the very first guest post courtesy of Krish from Montreux, Switzerland. Trying to shake her bad boy blues, Krish tells us all about her bad romance. Some of us have definitely been here before…

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I am in the midst of extracting myself from that oh so bad boy dilemma and boy, is it hard. This is the kind of guy that every woman falls for at some point in her life… and like a big chocolate gateau it is forbidden, no good for you and tempting beyond belief. The bad boy knows how to treat you. At first. Not that he treats you well, but he is an expert in what will make you feel desired, then giddy, then totally hooked.

In my case I’ve had Bad Boy syndrome for a year now and the memories are bitter and few; when he becomes attracted to someone else, when his phone beeps all night long with racy thoughts from other ‘friends’ these things remain in your head and crowd out the sensual times, the way he looked at you at first, when he took you to that concert.. not to mention the drunken hazy memories outside the local bar, on a side street in the shadows kissing frantically and thinking nothing is as good is this.

Your friends are beyond bored about hearing about him. Worse, they no longer have any faith that you are strong enough to let him go. They do not don the rose-coloured glasses and actually they find him, well, a bit of an idiot really. But they prop you up with chardonnay and listen to the latest rampant bad behaviour and console in all the right places because they love you. Later, going on to the club they try not to kill you when you dash away having being summoned by Mr Casanova to go and keep him company at his house tonight. Yes, the most you see of this man is after midnight.

What is it about these bad boys?? Try as you might spending time with a nice lad who wants to take you to the cinema and hear more about your life, you just can’t seem to focus because bad boy is still in your heart, and he is deliberately keeping himself there for the long haul. Find it a suprise that he sends you a text message on a Saturday night ‘just because?’ he is scared you are on a date. When you feel like moving on the most, here he comes, riding into the scene in an utmost seductive manner and bam! You’re back to square one.

What’s a girl to do? Hmm. Anyway, if you’ll excuse me, I think I just heard my phone……..

- Krish, 33 from Montreux, Switzerland

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Getting Personal

January 11th, 2012

Remember a while back when we posted a video of a man proposing to his girlfriend on the Overground whilst a choir serenaded her with Bill Withers’ Lovely Day? The personal touches here were what made this story such a viral success. He knew her train routine and he was a member of the choir who assisted in the mini flash mob. You guys loved it, so we’re posting another one. This time, the groom-to-be made a miniature Lego film about the story of their romance. It’s truly adorable.

Lego Proposal Walt Thompson and Nealey Dozier

The most adorable proposal ever?

The groom Walt Thompson 29, from Atlanta, Georgia is a film producer and put his skills to the test when he spent 22 hours filming and a crazy amount of time editing the short proposal film which uses 2,600 photographs to make the 3 minute proposal video. Thompson even found the very clothes (or at least their Lego counterparts) that him and his girlfriend, Nealey Dozier were wearing the day they first met. Nealey who is a freelance food writer is depicted in the film preparing food whilst Walt photographs her. When he was hard at work, his unsuspecting girlfriend had been told to stay clear of his “man cave” as he was preparing his annual anniversary poem.

When the moment came for the big screening, he led her to the DVD player and told her to hit the play button. Nealey told the Huffington Post that whilst the film was playing, “He then came to stand behind me, and within seconds I could feel the loud thumping of his heart and his quivering hands as they grabbed for mine. It was only then that I realized this was no anniversary poem.” When the words “Will You Marry Me?” appeared on the screen, he went down on one knee and held out a box containing the two Lego characters with the groom holding the engagement ring.

What’s special about this proposal and the train one is that they are both deeply personal to the life of the couple. As a film producer, he turned to his craft to tell the story and get his message across. His references throughout the film tell the story of the couple’s connection. We had a recent proposal at ClickTonight HQ and I’ve been wanting to write about it for ages. Our digital marketer decided that after 3 years with his lovely girlfriend, it was time he did something about it. He planned to propose in a very simple way and by just asking the question, no frills. The night before the proposal the idea struck him that he would create a graphic on his laptop and hook it up to the TV so that when it was turned on it would display a graphic with the words “Will You Marry Me?” As soon as he’d seen she’d read it, he walked into the room with flowers and of course, the ring. Both our digital marketer and his girlfriend work in digital design and this was the perfect way to pop the question. It also helped him take some of the edge off! I would like to take this opportunity to wish him and his new fiance congratulations. We swooned when he recounted the story on a Monday morning.

The lessons to be drawn here, whether you are thinking of proposals or just starting to date is that whatever you decide to do for a special date or a romantic gesture, make it personal as that’s when it really counts. Think about what makes up the life of that person, their interests and your connection with them.

And…as always if you’re looking for somewhere special to go, we have the lowdown on the best bars, clubs and restaurants for romancing. Check out our Places Page where our members submit reviews and photos of the best locations around.

Funny Girl

January 6th, 2012

When men think of what they look for in a woman, aside from nice bum etc, do they count “funny” as a quality? It’s certainly what attracts women to men but when it’s the other way around, is comedy a turn off?

A short while ago a study was published in the scientific journal Evolution and Human Behaviour that argued that whilst men will laugh at the odd wise crack, when it comes to a long term partner, they just aren’t interested in funny women. We have to get this straight here as there is a marked difference between having a sense of humour and being funny. According to the study, when hundreds of men in their 20’s were asked if they appreciated a sense of humour, the majority of men said yes. When they were asked if they liked women who cracked their own jokes, the answer was a firm no.

Barbra Streisand Funny Girl

Barbra Streisand in Funny Girl. Proving that the comedian can get the guy, well at least fictionally...

A man is apparently more interested in how receptive a woman is to his humour. “Does she think I’m funny?” “Can I make her laugh?”, are the questions asked rather than “Is she funny?”, “Can she make me laugh?”. It’s interesting because this study seems to show that what men find attractive is when a woman plays delighted audience to his one man stand up and she shouldn’t necessarily have any witty repartee of her own. When a man is witty it’s seductive, when a woman is witty it’s seen as threatening.

Dr Martin, a psychologist at the University of Western Ontario, believes that men don’t really enjoy female comedy because “humour is seen as a masculine thing”. I don’t necessarily agree that men don’t like female comedians. I asked my most “masculine” boy friends and they all said they enjoyed comedy from Miranda Hart, Jo Brand and one even went as far as to say that Kristen Wiig in Bridesmaids made the film funnier than uber-man comedy The Hangover. Enjoyable yes, but when it comes to finding them attractive, well…

The study goes on to show that men enjoy witty women for short term relationships and one night stands but this is not the case for long term. This absolutely baffles me. No amount of science or psycho babble will allow me to comprehend this. We can’t account for all men and no one is trying to generalise here but we can’t overlook that the overall feeling is that funny women are not as attractive as the ones who sit nice and quietly and laugh at his jokes. I’m hoping someone can prove all of this wrong. Comedy is a sign of intelligence and if a man is prepared to enjoy this short term, it doesn’t make sense that he wouldn’t want to hold on to it. Barbra Streisand was certainly a trailblazer in Funny Girl, why has this been lost on our generation?

This Year I Will…Top 10 New Year’s Resolutions

January 3rd, 2012

Happy New Year readers! I hope you’ve had a wonderful start to the new year. Did you make any new year’s resolutions? More importantly, which ones have you already broken…cue one cheeky cigarette, still eating Christmas selection boxes, missed x2 spinning classes. Every year we set ourselves up for a fall before we’ve even hit February. Why not try some of these resolutions that are a little less generic.

1) Stop following at least one Kardashian on twitter. You may roll your eyes at this one but trust me, you know you are doing it! Continuing to support this madness helps no one.

2) Instead of googling things on your phone every time you think you don’t know something, stop and think for a minute if you actually know the answer. Remember those days when we actually thought about things?

Clicktonight.com New Year's Resolutions

Resolve to do something different this year!

3) Promise yourself that by the end of 2012 you will have learned a new skill. Learn better cooking skills (or in my case learn to cook), start learning a new language or take a course in something totally random. Christie’s Auction House often run courses in history of opera, antiques and art history. Knowing a unique skill makes for an impressive talking point over a dinner date and why not take the opportunity to broaden your mind.

4) Resolve to spend more time with friends. No more excuses about working late, having to network rather than socialise. We are all guilty. Life is too short to dedicate all our attentions to strangers and acquaintances.

5) Go on that trip you’ve been meaning to take for ages. You know when someone is telling you about a place they’ve just been to and you respond with “Oh, I’ve always wanted to go there”, well why don’t you go? Book it and take a few days off. The January sales don’t just apply to shops…there are loads of great deals out there. Booked it, packed it, f**cked off.

6) Creature of habit? Instead of suggesting the same fail-safe date venues, try some new ones. Dating is not just about meeting new people, it’s also about going to new places! If you’re wary of breaking habits, trust in the experiences of fellow Click members. Our Places Page is packed full of reviews of bars, restaurants and clubs so no excuses.

7) Do things for just you. Spend time looking after the most important person, you! Rather than buy a new pair of jeans or a dress, spend your hard-earned cash on a massage or a facial. It’s all about feeling good!

8) Resolve to date someone different. We all have our “types” but maybe the reason you’ve not found anyone who interests you is because you’re fishing in the same waters. Pay your attentions to someone who might not fit your exact “bill”. You never know, you might be pleasantly surprised.

9) Have at least one night a week when you can totally switch off. Turn off the phone and stop watching TV whilst checking Facebook! Read a book, take a long bath, cook something. Sometimes we need to get offline. (This is partially a note to myself).

10) Raise money for charity. There are some great initiatives to get involved in and with the help of social media it’s much easier to raise the profile of what you’re doing and get support. Not only are you helping other people but you WILL feel great about yourself. Get your friends involved and if you do something active you can use the opportunity to get fit.

Happy New Year all and if you can’t stick to your resolutions, at least assist in banishing the Kardashians from the public eye. It’s a very worthy cause.
Here’s to 2012!